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Friday, January 10, 2014

Strengthening A Willing Spirit

January 10, 2014 0 Comments

Strengthens a willing spirit is through weakening the body

Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride in possessions—is not from the Father but is from the world. And the world is passing away along with its desires, but whoever does the will of God abides forever 
1 John 2:15-17.




How do we strengthens our spirit?

Often us christians cannot rise up to answer the Lord’s call to service simply because, though our physical condition is good, our feelings are low, cold, and reluctant. Or even when our emotions are quite high, passionate, and willing, we find ourselves unable to serve the Lord because now the body reacts lazily. The disciples found themselves in precisely that situation in the Garden of Gethsemane: “the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak” -Matt. 26. 41. 

Willingness by itself is not sufficient; the spirit also must be strong. If it is sturdy it can overcome the infirmity (frailty, disability, lacking power) of the flesh (sin of the body and self of the soul). 


How do we strengthens our spirit?

In order for us to be strengthened with power through the Holy Spirit, we must discharge (let go of ) our responsibility. We need to yield specifically to the Lord, forsake every doubtful aspect in our life, be willing to obey fully God’s will, and believe through prayer that He will flood our spirit with His power. Without delay God does answers the expectation of our hearts, once all obstacles on our part are removed. We christians do not need to wait for the Holy Spirit’s filling, because He has descended already. What we need only wait for is for ourselves (body and Mind) to fulfill the condition for His filling, which is, we must let the cross perform a deeper incision upon our body. 

So we can Strengthen our spirit by yielding ONLY to God? 

Yes! When we yield only to Christ we can begin to understand him. By Understanding him we gain fuel that strengthens our spirit to fulfill Gods will.

See, when we understand ourselves, we begin to understand weakness and faults. When we understand other people, we begin to learn how to work together. When we understand the world around us, we begin to understand creation. But when we understand Jesus, we begin to understand God. That is what Jesus was trying to help the disciples do.
 Jesus called twelve disciples to set aside their lives and livelihoods to follow him. When he taught with parables, many people were confused. Jesus would take these twelve disciples aside and explain it to them. When he ministered with miracles, many people came to be healed and blessed. The Gospels tell us that Jesus empowered his disciples out to perform miracles. When Jesus entered Jerusalem, many people greeted him and shouted Hosanna. Jesus took these twelve aside to break bread at the Last Supper. 
When the dinner was over, Jesus went with these twelve to the Garden of Gethsemane. That evening he had cleansed the disciples' feet. He offered symbols of his body and his blood, and he knew that he was facing an ordeal of excruciating pain and humiliation. These twelve who had left everything behind to follow him still remained. They were a source of comfort and companionship. I am confident that Christ was genuinely glad to have them there. He made a simple request. Stay here with me in the garden and pray. So they stayed. And they slept. Jesus checked on them and found them asleep. I can hear him now. "Hey guys, wake up! Stay with me and pray." Then come those cryptic lines, but so important. "Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the body is weak." Twice more they stayed. And twice more they slept. 
I can hear the heartache in Jesus' words. I can also hear the patience, the compassion, and the love. After the disciples had let him down three times on this terrible night, Jesus said, "Rise! Let us go!" He still wanted to be with them. He still wanted them to be with him. They still had willing spirits, and Jesus knew it.
Jesus knows how willing our spirits are today, and he still encourages the willing spirit. 

Are you willing to go to Gethsemane with Christ? 
Are you able to stay awake and pray with him? 
Will you follow him through trials and persecution? 

Will you follow him? 

Will I follow him?

Jesus is completely aware of our weak spirit and that is why the bible forewarned us to refrain from wasting time in understanding the world (for the world cannot strengthens the spirit)  but rather seek him, seek his understanding and become his friend, for if we do so the least we fall into temptations of the world, the least we’re feeding the body and more we strengthens the spirit.

After all, It is impossible to love the world and also Love God...(No one can serve two masters)  just like we cant be married to two people. Doing so our love is falsified and is not acceptable in the eyes of God, for we are committing adultery. Therefore, whoever wants to be a friend of the world is the enemy of God (and has committed adultery with the world). Lust of the eye, lust of the flesh, and pride of life are the enemies of God. Do not love the world or the things that are by the world. If any man loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.  For everything by the world, (the desires of the flesh, the desires of the eye, and the pride of possessions), is not by the Father, but exists by the world 1 John 2:15-16. 


How to prevent yourself from loving the world?

We do so by getting rid of anything and everything that we love that is not of God, anything  that we cant seem to stop thinking of that is not of God, anything that consumes us that is not of God is an Idol and therefore must go. 

  • If you love food, and cant seem to be satisfied without eating meat, then do a meat fasting monthly, weakly then daily!
  • If its material things such as jewelry or clothing, fast on those items as well. Stop wearing jewelry or wear only a certain color of clothing.

Whatever it is that consumes you let it go! If you ask me, It’s not so much of what we let consumes us but rather our lack of self control and discipline as Christians. We are already from a line of weak spirited decedents who have been rooted in a corrupted world who’s foundational values is perpendicular to the word of God. 

We must Understand, the love of the world is primarily an attitude of one’s heart, and we CAN cast away worldliness by cultivating a new affection. To avoid spiritual adultery, “set your hearts on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth” -Colossians 3:2. Once we take the stand to discipline ourselves and our only meaningful possession becomes our friendship with Christ, only then can our spirit  be sharp as a two sided sword! 


How to know your spirit is sharpening ?

Well, Prayer!  Prayer is the acid test of our inner strength. A strong spirit is capable of praying much and praying with all perseverance until the answer comes. A weak one grows weary and fainthearted in the maintenance of praying. A vigorous spirit can move forward in the midst of adverse environment or feeling, but a frail one is impotent to stand against opposition. Great is the need of power in the spirit for spiritual warfare with our own self.  Otherwise the battle will be make-believe, fought in the imagination of the mind or the excitement of the emotion, and perhaps fought with the weapons of flesh and blood.



Dear Lord, I praise you for your infinite patience and wisdom. I thank you for calling me to follow you. I know that I am prone to weaknesses and faults. I also know that you encourage the willing heart. Give me a willing heart, Lord, and encourage me. Holy Spirit live in me, and make my willing spirit strong and sharp so that I may serve you well. Amen.




XO- Bianca

Saturday, January 4, 2014

Pool Picnic

January 04, 2014 0 Comments

Picnic With A View
Guide To a Picnic Date






















Picnic With A View
Places with interesting scenery are good choices - they show you're not boring, provide things to talk about, and the setting makes it easier to relax and open up. How about:
  • A hilltop where you can see people fly kites, sail, surf, paraglide, fly remote-controlled gliders, or do any other fun-to-watch activities. Avoid noise, things like waverunners are better from a distance.
  • A place to watch sports while you picnic, like a polo field, lacrosse, ultimate Frisbee, or any other local club sports
  • A view of the city skyline, a bridge, bay or harbor, stadium, or other attractive landmark
  • Botanical gardens
  • Historic areas with old buildings and architecture
  • Park where you can watch children play
  • Pool, lake or beach where you can you can enjoy the ray of sunshine reflecting off the water
Nature View

The wild has some amazing areas for a romantic picnic. Try to find a spot that doesn't require too much of a walk and keep the meal light if you're hiking in. National or state parks are good places to start and remember that bathrooms can be an issue in the wild. 
Try These!

Along a lake, river, or near a waterfall
An open meadow
Hillside looking out across a valley
Nature preserves
The desert during more temperate months
Wooded areas or a forest clearing
The Beach
Beach picnics provide all kinds of fun things to see and do. If crowds are an issue consider going later in the day when families are heading home and remember to bring a beach umbrella or canopy for shade. The biggest issue with picnicking at the beach is sand being blown into your food. I recommend finger foods that can be eaten out of Tupperware containers so that you can keep the food covered while eating. When thinking of beach spots, consider:
  • Cliffs along the shoreline where you can see miles and miles of coast
  • Beaches with built-in bbq's for grilling
  • Fire pits are a fun way to stay past sunset and roast marshmallows
  • If on a lake or other calm body of water, think about small docks
  • If you have a lake in your area, could you take a rowboat to a secluded spot?

Park
Parks are the picnic staple and can be great if you have a well-maintained one nearby. 
  • Look for parks that offer concerts or other productions by talking to your parks department
  • Investigate parks in surrounding areas by visiting city websites
  • Find one with good space and shade so you can get away from the crowds and sun



Seasonal
Picnics are suited to warmer times of the year but that doesn't mean you can't have one in the dead of winter!
  • Enjoy the changing of the seasons by taking a drive to an area where you can experience the brilliant colors of fall. Bring a waterproof blanket, warm clothes and hot food!
  • Plan a picnic is the snow with hot cider, cocoa, coffee, tea, or mulled wine, along with a big container of hot soup. Bring a waterproof blanket and keep food warm in cooler with heated bricks (see food section below). While you're out there pick a spot to go sledding or build a snowman!
  • Enjoy the blooming spring flowers by taking a drive to the country and having a picnic in a meadow among the wildflowers. Pick a bouquet to take home and enjoy for the rest of the week. Don't forget a container to keep the flowers watered for the ride home.





Others 

  • Rooftop
  • Festivals
  • On a boat
  • Pick your own fruit farm
  • Vineyard, along with wine tasting



What To Bring
Because of the natural issues with picnics, such as bugs, wind, dirt, and food heating issues, my personal preference is to keep things very simple with foods that can be eaten by hand, right out of Tupperware containers. The menu choice is up to you, but here are some basic food tips:
  • Mayonnaise spoils quickly, keep it refrigerated and add to salads or sandwiches after arrival
  • Keep eggs and dairy products well-chilled
  • Keep food cold with frozen bottles of water that you can drink later after they’ve thawed
  • If you’re bringing hot food, one trick for keeping it warm is to put a few bricks in the oven at 250 degrees F for 45 minutes or so, and then wrap them in tin foil and place in a cooler on top of a towel (so they don't melt through). This will keep anything you put in the cooler warm for up to an hour.
  • Use Ziploc bags to keep food fresh
  • Pack soft foods in hard containers so they don’t get squished
  • Pack food just before leaving for the picnic
  • Make sure alcohol is permitted if you plan on bringing it
This is a big list of possible items that may give you ideas or at least keep you from forgetting important things:
  • Thick blanket (waterproof if area's damp, I ALWAYS CARY ONE IN MY TRUNK)
  • Small cooler
  • Picnic basket or backpack (Preferably basket)
  • Napkins
  • Disposable plates, plastic cups and utensils
  • Condiments
  • Wet wipes
  • One plastic bag for trash and another for used dishware or glasses that you're taking home
  • Jug of water and 2 light towels to clean up. Dampen the towels and use to freshen up, remove sunscreen, clean dog paws, etc
  • Bug spray (optional)
  • Wine glasses (optional)
  • Corkscrew (optional)
  • Umbrella or canopy for shade (optional)
  • Hats or sunscreen (optional)
  • Warm clothes if it might cool off (optional)
  • Flashlight (optional)
  • Camera (optional)
  • Talcum powder around the outside of the picnic blanket to keep ants away (optional)

More Romantic?

  • Small vase and flowers, picked upon arrival if possible
  • Tealight candles in glass tumblers or large shot glasses, or a solar sun jar if you're staying past sunset
  • Music
  • A pillow or two

What To do??
Sometimes sitting down and getting to know each other is plenty, but other times you'll want to do something besides talk. Try:What to do
  • Flying a kite
  • Play games like backgammon, cribbage, or cards
  • Frisbee
  • Let your dog(s) enjoy the picnic with you and play
  • Swimming
  • Bocce ball or other lawn games
  • Hiking
  • Listen to each other's favorite music
  • Bring 5 or 6 types of wine and have you own wine tasting
  • Play catch with a football or kick a soccer ball around
  • Do a crossword puzzle together
  • Lay back and spot cloud shapes
  • An after-lunch stroll
  • Bring bubbles!